Wednesday, September 30, 2026

FROM THE SPINE - SEPTEMBER 2026 BOOK REVIEWS

September 2026

September felt like a weird dream- living in a new house with no idea where anything is or belongs. Trying to learn new patterns. Trying to not drive to the old house on auto-pilot. The heat was brutal too. I made my fourth trip to NM this year to attend my Granny Renee’s memorial service. That was a hard trip, but very important for grieving and healing. 


Anyway, here are the books I finished and my reviews of them:


Fiction Books

Cold Eyes by Peter Cawdron

Dali wakes up with no idea who he is (like Grace in PHM). His memories didn’t stick. He is part of a team of four clones on a deep space mission to make first contact with an alien planet. The crew is twelve light-years away from Earth. Sandy is the warship Magellan commander. Kari is the ship scientist/botanist. Helios is the ship doctor. Dali is the humanities expert tasked with communicating with the two alien races on Bee. The story feels like a sci-fi adventure book, but it is packed with ideas about the social, political, religious, and scientific implications of first contact with aliens. The author assumes that other sentient creatures would have their own drama, motivations, and lies. The story has plenty of science, action, discovery, and plot twists. I found it to be creative, unique, and entertaining. Thanks for sending this one to me, Mike.


This is for interstellar adventurers, scientists, and artists. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Neil Shah, 13:03)


The Warden and the Wolf King by Andrew Peterson (Wingfeather Saga #4)

Janner turns thirteen at the start of the book and gets blind-plopped in the middle of nowhere as part of a Durgan ritual designed to test the young man’s skills at survival, orientation, and navigation. During his trip back, the Fang army attacks Ban Rona with an air assault- Bat Fangs. Kalmar alerts the backup troops about the secret assault and saves the city from being overrun. Leeli discovers that her whistle harp has the ancient power to turn the tide of battle. She also uses her dog-speak gift to send messages and reinforcements where needed. The Fangs pull back, and the city stands for the moment. Kalmar knows that the only way to win the war is to cut the head off of the snake- Kalmar goes after Gnag the Nameless in the Castle Throg. On his way, he finds Janner and a young troll he rescued and befriended named Oood. The trio heads toward the deeps of Throg. On their way, they go through Clovenfast, and they meet the queen and spark hope in the creatures there. On the doorstep of the deeps, the broken cloven army takes out Oood. The boys make it into the Castle Throg, steal the ancient stone, and run away from a Bonnifer Squoon spider creature. But Gnag isn’t in his castle. He is capturing Leeli. The boys are captured at the bottom of their escape route from the castle, and the children are taken to the Isle of Anniera, where Gnag forces the jewels to open a secret chamber called the Fane of Fire, where he steals a much bigger ancient stone of power. The final battle is a crazy mix of all the creatures, including the dragons, ridge runners,  fangs, and cloven. The end of the book is a story of ultimate sacrifice as the Wingfeather brothers seek to heal the fangs and the cloven who will be the seeds that begin the renewed kingdom of Anniera. This is my favorite book in the series. It is the most complete. It ties up almost all of the loose ends. It takes you through the darkest depths, and tension and sorrow and loss, but restores your hope. It’s a reminder that we are all loved and named by the Maker. It says that little boys are made out of much more solid stuff than we give them credit for. Let’s challenge, teach, and grow them. Let’s help them do dangerous things, carefully. 


This is for adventurers, seekers, and healers.

(Rated PG, Score 10/10, audiobook read by the author, 13:46)


The Poisoned King by Katherine Rundell (Impossible Creatures #2)

Christopher Forrester is a guardian. He guards the way between our world and the Glimoria Archipelago- a magical place where all the impossible creatures live. He is called back to the Archipelago by Jacques, the tiny dragon, to investigate the death of the dragons. Naravirala, the ancient sphinx, guides them in their investigation. On their way to find the ancient dragons, they rescue a princess, Anya Argen, who is being hunted by her evil uncle, Claude Argen, who seeks to be king. The children face many dangers in their quest to save the dragons. They evade assassins who would kill Anya so that Claude would inherit the throne. The children are aided by the berserker Fidens Nighthand, and his love, the scientist, Irian Guinne, who have established a massive sanctuary for creatures in need. Nighthand is my favorite character behind Jacques. The berserker does not feel fear, and so, cannot love, because to love is to risk loss, and that is terrifying. I love the characters and plot development in this story almost as much as the first book. I enjoyed the way Rundell describes difficult things like the internal poison of revenge, or the depth of treachery in gold. I love all the magic, and wonder, and power that the impossible creatures bring into the story. I love way the story leads to the inevitable ruin of greed. As with the first book, I loved the language, the world-building, the adventure, and the deeper truths. We are already looking forward to book 3. 


This is for dragon riders, alchemists, and young royals. 

(Rated PG, Score 10/10, audiobook read by Sam West, 7:06)


Mission Critical by Mark Greaney (Gray Man #8)

Gray Man teams up with Anthem (Zoya) and Romantic (Zach Hightower) in Poison Apple, a sub rosa (off-the-books) CIA program. The CIA has a mole who is selling secrets to the Chinese, Iran, and other anti-American actors. The action starts with Gray Man finding himself in the middle of a shootout during a compromised prisoner handoff. The prisoner has info about the CIA mole, and the bad guys kidnap him from the CIA to keep him quiet. Anthem escapes a death squad ordered to execute her at a CIA safehouse, and cons her way over to the UK in search of her father (General Zakharov), who is supposed to be dead, but is actually an active Russian spymaster working in the UK. Romantic is ordered to lean on the short list of CIA employees who had access to all the recently compromised ops to scare out the mole. The chase leads to the Five Eyes spy conference where the leaders of all the English-speaking intelligence agencies will meet in Scotland. The ultimate plot is against that conference.  A bio weapon is being made to infect the top spies with pneumonic plague. It’s up to Poison Apple to spoil the attack. 

Like the other Gray Man books, this one is filled with violent action, snark, subterfuge, and vigilante justice. It begs the question: Who are the “good guys”? What if the good guys are also bad? Is it ok for the good guys to do bad things to the bad guys to protect the rest of us? I found it fascinating that this book about weaponized plague would find me right after finishing a book about Ebola and the great lengths we went to to not weaponize it accidentally against ourselves. 


I recommend this book to Mitch Rapp, Jason Bourne, and Gray Man fans. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Jay Snyder, 17:01)


The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy

Some books are therapeutic. This little book is that type. Mackesy wrote this book for everyone- from eight to eighty-year-olds. It’s filled with over 100 beautiful drawings of the boy, the mole, the fox, and the horse as they interact. The dialog is simple and very profound. The boy is lonely when he meets the mole. The mole loves cake. The fox is usually silent because he’s been hurt by the world. The horse is the strongest. The characters look at the wild which is scary and beautiful with storms, night, snow, and spring. I love this book and reread it often. It reminds me of many good, healthy truths. 


This book is for everyone. It is deeply therapeutic. Get the hardback and read it with a warm beverage to refresh your soul. 

(Rated G, Score 10/10, Hardback)


Non-Fiction Books

What’s Wrong With The World by G.K. Chesterton

I borrowed this book from my friend Jason many moons ago and finally got through it. The language is 1910 England English, so it was a bit more challenging than the other books I've read lately. Chesterton undertakes a study in five parts of the broken bits of society and argues that we already know how to fix them; we just haven’t had the discipline or courage. The five parts are: 1) The homelessness of man. 2) Imperialism. 3) Feminism. 4) Education. 5) The home of the man. Running through all parts is the theme that reformers have confused the cure with the disease by trying to radically reinvent the family rather than by going back to the fundamental family unit as it has been successfully used in the past. People want a fancy new future, not boring disciplines and structure. Instead of industrial capitalism or state socialism, Chesterton argues for distributing property back to families willing to use it well. He calls it Distributism. On feminism and education, he argues that we are getting “progress” at the cost of our freedoms. He suggests that women’s suffrage is a way to suck women into the drudgery of the modern workforce rather than a way to give them equal rights. In a similar way, he suggests that the modern education system is just creating little cogs to fuel the economic/industrial machine, when it should be creating whole, free individuals. The point is that we get obsessed with the novelty of the future, rather than focusing on the successful/proven methods we can study from the past. Thank you, Jason, for letting me borrow this book. I’ll get it back to you soon.


This is for a philosophical revamp, and thinkers who appreciate old truths. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Bernard Mayes, 6:54)


No One’s Coming by Kevin Hazzard

This is a fascinating book about mixing airplanes and lethal infectious diseases. Phoenix Air is the company who gets the phone call, when situations are impossible like moving ebola victims without infecting the modern world. Ebola is a terrifying disease. We send doctors all over the world to fight the disease. But what happens when those doctors get sick. They want to come home and fight the disease with the people they love. This book is about how the people at Phoenix Air went above and beyond their duty, and literally invented the art of safely transporting patients with infectious diseases. There were no rules for how to properly handle situations like this and the fear and red tape in the way were monumental, but the crew at Phoenix Air stepped up, innovated, and pushed through safely. There’s a quote I use at work for situations like this: Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist. The crew at Phoenix Air had a long history of knowing the rules and dealing with elevated risk and danger from their time hauling explosives. This put them in a strategic position to invent biomedical transport when the need arose. 

Thanks, Phil for recommending this one. 


This is for airplane people and medical people.

(Rated R, Score 9/10, audiobook read by Nick Mills, 8:04)


Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer

The biology involved in climbing Mount Everest was a little bit lost on me until I read this book. The summit of the giant mountain is almost 30,000 feet. Airplane pilots learn to deal with hypoxia starting at about 10,000 feet. The author was part of an expedition attempting to summit Everest in May, 1996. The book covers the trip through base camp and each of the other camps on the mountain as the group acclimates to the altitude and the elements.  The author includes some of the history of the mountain and how climbing it had become more commercialized as guides are highly-paid to get inexperienced climbers to the top. During the climbing season in the book, there were several different climbing teams working their way up the mountain and each had different guides and different skill levels. Several groups attempted to summit on May 10. Some made it. Others are still there, frozen in death. It was fascinating to read about the way the lack of oxygen caused the climbers to lose cognitive function and make poor decisions in the weather and the altitude, and how communication deteriorated leading to the death of several climbers. The human will to overcome difficulty and suffering is unbelievable.  One climber was left for dead by his teammates twice and still managed to get himself low enough to be rescued properly after spending two nights (I think) unprotected on the mountain. I climbed several mountains in my youth, and I now can confirm that I have no desire to tackle Everest.

Key takeaways: Oxygen is important. Always climb with a buddy. Careful communication is important in crisis. Nature is unforgiving. Even the professionals make mistakes. Getting to the top is not the only goal because you still have to survive the trip back down.

Thank you, Lucas for recommending this one to me. 


This is for climbers, adventurers, and sherpas.

(Rated PG-13, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Philip Franklin, 9:08)


Currently Reading-

Many Waters by Madeleine L’Engle

Everything Sad is Untrue by Daniel Nayeri


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. It might help you manage your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

How do you say goodbye to someone who had been such a big part of your biggest moments? How do you honor them well? How do you process all the grief without it getting stuck somewhere behind your Adam’s apple? I don’t know the answer to any of these questions. I’m still discovering them. When we traveled to Alamogordo in southern New Mexico for Granny’s memorial service, we were each trying to answer those questions. My dad and my uncle asked me to give her eulogy. I spent a lot of time working on crafting the right words. There are some words in there that make me cry every time I read them. I think that those words that are the closest to the truth about who she was and how much she meant. Those are the words that are closest to describing her properly. I’m sure what I said wasn’t perfect, and my delivery was interrupted by my allergies (tears), but my hope is that it helped the people there remember Granny in a beautiful way, and that it captured the essence of what she means to my family and her community. My Granny was a wonderful lady.  She will be deeply missed.  


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua

Monday, August 31, 2026

FROM THE SPINE - AUGUST 2026 BOOK REVIEWS

August 2026

August has been hot - so hot they cancelled some soccer practices and games. We used the racquetball courts to train those days. We spent August packing, cleaning, and doing lots of paperwork. We moved to a new house and sold our old house. Now we are trying to figure out where we put everything we packed and find spots for everything. Moving is hard work. 


Anyway, here are the books I finished and my reviews of them:


Fiction Books

Amari and the Night Brothers by B.B. Alston

Amari is a young black girl from the hood. She’s trying to make her way in the world, but she’s starting from a disadvantage. Her single mom is struggling to make ends meet, and her older brother has disappeared. Everything changes for Amari when she gets drawn into a world of magic. Her brother leaves her clues and an invitation into the magic world he discovered. Amari must brave the challenges of learning so much about her new world, and she seeks to find her lost brother at all costs. She makes new friends (and new enemies). She steps into her new powers and learns to control them. She also sees that even the magical world is full of prejudice, deception, power struggles, and kind souls. Humans, after all, are still human, even if they have magic powers. Amari is drawn into a desperate hunt for an ancient artifact that would unleash ancient evils upon the world. Can she solve the puzzles, piece together the clues, and defeat the Night Brothers? 

I enjoyed the novelty of this story. It blends magic and lore from many different backgrounds in new ways. I found myself cheering for Amari as she made hard decisions and evolved through the challenges she faced. Here are some questions and themes the book wrestled with: Life is not fair. How we deal with that fact shows our character. For example, Amari comes out of poverty to compete with the rich kids. What (or who) are we willing to fight for? Amari fights for her family. What lies or illusions are we believing? What lies or illusions are we creating or perpetuating? Amari is an illusionist. She has to learn how to use her powers safely. How can we give others the hand up we needed? How can we embrace our gifts and grow them for ourselves and others? I did struggle a little with the teen girl vibe. Never been a teen girl, so it was a stretch to feel all the same feels.


This is for readers who believe in magic, mysteries, and thrills. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Imani Parks, 11:12)


James by Percival Everett

Remember Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn and their shenanigans. This is the deeper, darker side of that story, following the slave Jim, who is a very complex character. Jim runs away from his owner and family when he hears that he is going to be sold. He hides out on an island for a bit before floating down the Mississippi River with Huck. Jim decides he is going to earn enough money to buy his wife and daughter to free them from their former owner. Jim hides his education and philosophical musings behind a mask of slave speak. The longer he is free, the more the mask slips away. Eventually, Jim’s transformation is complete. He becomes James, a free man who has the power of words and ideas driving him forward and rescuing other oppressed slaves. 

One particular part of this book that resonated with me was when Jim gets bitten by a rattlesnake and spends several days in a fever dream trying to recover. With only the renegade boy Huck to care for him, he is lucky to live. Here’s their conversation when Jim is recovered enough to eat again: “I’m glad you didn’t die,” Huck said. “I’m a right pleased about that my own self.” I stared into the fire. “ Dying can ruin a good time.” Watch out for those rattlesnakes. 

This is a very challenging book. I can see why it would win awards. It is filled with brutal truths and the sins of our American slavery past. The type of things you can only tell in story form, because they are too ugly and raw to be faced on their own. We humans have immense power for cruelty, self-deception, and violence. We also have immense power for love, rescue, redemption, and connection. Like James, we need to use our words and actions to free each other and rescue the powerless. I hope we can learn from our history and build a better today and tomorrow for our kids. 


This is for philosophers, historians, and seekers.

(Rated R, Score 9/10, audiobook read by Dominic Hoffman, 7:49)


Dungeon Crawler Carl by Matt Dinniman (DCC#1)

It’s been a while since I read this first book, and with all the popularity and hype, I wanted to revisit it while we wait for book #9. This was my first LitRPG book- the characters end up in a role-playing game. The world (Earth) is destroyed and changed into a big game for the universe to watch. Carl and his ex-girlfriend’s cat, Princess Donut, get sucked into the game as contestants (Crawlers). It’s like Survivor, but a dungeon video game- but real life to them. They enter the dungeon as Level 1 on Floor 1. Donut gains the ability to talk and gain status as a crawler by eating a magical pet biscuit. They start by defeating a group of goblins. Next, they find a training room and a mentor who teaches them all about the game. Each floor collapses after a set time. Each deeper floor is filled with worse bad guys. Carl and Donut work together to gain levels, find treasure, build weapons, and stay alive. This book only covers the first two floors of danger and chaos out of eighteen. This is the type of book you should not read to wind down. It will get your blood pressure up and hook you into reading way past your bedtime. 


This is for gamers and not for anyone easily offended. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Jeff Hays, 13:31)


Carl’s Doomsday Scenario by Matt Dinniman (DCC#2)

Carl and Princess Donut start book 2 right where book 1 left off. They are trapped in a video game. Earth is now Dungeon Crawler World, which is a combo game/reality TV show for the alien universe. The surviving humans are contestants. Carl and Donut survived the first couple of training floors in book 1, so they get to pick race and class attributes. Mongo, their pet velociraptor, is growing along with them. As he learns and levels up, his size changes dramatically. At the start of the book, he’s chicken-sized, and at the end, he’s more like a horse. Mordecai, their game guide, gets promoted to be Donut’s manager, which means they drag him around Over City. Floor three is called Over City, and it has new enemies and dangers. Carl gets dumped into a creepy circus quest. He and Mordecai prepare a plan that morphs and adapts as the story plays out. He ends up cutting a deal for later floors, reuniting a family, and rescuing Donut and Mongo along the way. When they find a bigger town, they get stuck in a new quest. They have to solve a Sky Foul mystery. The quest takes them to the end of the floor. The author does a good job dressing up deep struggles and tensions in gore and game dressing. Like a good video game, the story is complex, the plot is unpredictable, and there are deeper themes, but you can easily get lost in the design and graphics. My favorite character is Mongo. He’s funny. 


This is for mature gamers. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Jeff Hays, 11:28)


On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness by Andrew Peterson (Wingfeather Saga #1)

Jet loves this series, so we are revisiting it. It is predictable in a time when a lot of life seems chaotic. The Igiby children- Janner, Tink, and Leeli live in the Glipwood township, which is occupied by the Fangs of Dang. The evil Fangs oppress the citizens. On Dragon Day, the Igibys end up in a scuffle with the Fangs, which escalates over the course of the book. Their mother Nia bails the Igiby children out of Fang jail, and they try to keep to themselves, but a final showdown is inevitable. The Igiby children’s grandfather, Podo, leads the clan to Anklejelly Manor, where they take shelter in a secret weapon stash while the Fangs battle the deadly creatures from Glipwood Forest. In the morning after the battle all the Fangs are dead, which buys the Igibys some time to prepare for their journey to the cold north and discover old secrets of who they really are - the Jewels of Anniera. Being a fantastic work of fiction in a totally made-up world, this little book is so fun and creative. The characters are colorful and memorable. Plus, there are many lessons woven into the narrative. 


This is for small adventurers, and bigger adventurers who can tag along.

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, Audiobook read by the author, 8:19, hardback, 304p.)


North! Or Be Eaten by Andrew Peterson (Wingfeather Saga #2)

In book 2, the adventures of the Igiby family continue as they flee from the Fangs of Dang over the Mighty Blapp River and into the Ice Prairies. Stranders, a Fork Factory, toothy cows, Gray Fangs, Bomnubbles, and Snickbuzzards are just a few of the dangers the Jewels of Anniera must face in this tale. Can the Throne Warden protect the King as his duty and honor dictate? Can an old man be forgiven for his long-ago sins against the dragons? Listening to this with Jet, I had to deal with so many questions. The action and danger keep him nervous and trying to figure out what happens next.


This is for adventurers, protectors, and rebels.

(Rated PG, Score 9/10, audiobook read by the author, 12:01)


All Systems Red by Martha Wells (Murderbot #1)

Murderbot is a human/machine hybrid in charge of security for a survey team on a distant planet. It struggles with human interactions/emotions, preferring the humans in its charge to perceive it as a robot rather than a person. Murderbot has to step up its security game after its team is attacked by violent predators on the planet, then by an unknown, rogue team of surveyors with hacked security bots. The bad guys wipe out a different survey team and try to hijack Murderbot when it investigates the other team’s habitat. Murderbot’s team rescues him, and they work their way off the planet to safety. Thanks, Lucas, for the recommendation.


This book is for sci-fi fans and socially awkward humans. 

(Rated PG-13, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 3:17)


The Monster in the Hollows by Andrew Peterson (Wingfeather Saga #3)

After they escape from the Gray Fangs in the north, the Jewels of Anniera sail south to the Green Hollows. The Green Hollows were originally home to two of the main characters in the story- Nia Wingfeather (the Jewels’ mother and the Queen of Anniera) and Podo Helmer (the grandfather). The welcome the family receives is not what they expected. The Hollows Folk guard their land fiercely. Their main enemy has been the Fangs of Dang. Now, a little Fang (Kalmar) has found his way into their peaceful community. The little Fang is treated with contempt and shame, and only by offering her life as collateral is Nia able to secure Kalmar’s freedom. As the story unfolds in the Green Hollows, the three children deepen their gifts and royal roles through schooling, squabbling with the Hollow's children, and through their family ties. As winter falls, animals start disappearing from the farms surrounding the Hollows. Eventually, the people of the Hollows, hearts hardened by fear, capture and attempt to execute Kalmar for murder. There are some excellent twists and turns as the end of the book plays out. Who is the monster? Fear makes people do strange things; it also provides a trigger to help us think about where our greatest opportunities lie. 


This is for monsters, little boys, and anyone dealing with bullies.

(Rated PG, Score 9/10, audiobook read by the author, 9:18)


Non-Fiction Books

Hidden Potential by Adam Grant

This book didn’t really resonate with me. It didn’t give me the lightbulb moments or new language for ideas I’m used to getting from Adam Grant. Maybe the timing wasn’t right. 

The book aims to show ordinary people how to unlock their hidden potential for greatness. The book is divided into three parts. Part I describes how skills of character are developed. We can develop our character through discomfort, soaking up feedback like a sponge, and focusing on improvement over perfection. Part II covers methods of motivation: using play to tackle the grind of training, building resilience through plateaus and setbacks, and training together to overcome long odds. In Part III, Grant examines systems of opportunity, like the case study of the education system of Finland, discussions on finding talent hidden in your organizations, and finally, the fight of José Hernández to become a NASA astronaut. 

One of Grant’s biggest points of emphasis in the book is that it’s not how far you rise, but what you overcome along the way. Each of us starts at a different point on the journey. Each of us has different paths, struggles, helpers, and guides. Let’s maximize our opportunities and lift others with us. 


This is for young leaders, teachers, and coaches.

(Rated PG, Score 6/10, audiobook read by the author, 7:21)


Night of the Grizzlies by Jack Olsen

This book tells the story of two deadly bear attacks that happened in Glacier National Park on the same night in August, 1967. The author starts with a history of the park and the progression of humans into the wilderness, pushing the bears farther and farther north. The story is about the tension between humans and bears, and how park officials had plenty of warning about the odd behavior of two different sets of bears around Trout Lake and Granite Park Chalet. Staff at the Chalet had been feeding the bears food scraps daily for many summers. The bear at Trout Lake had been behaving strangely for months, with none of the timidity that other bears showed. The summer of 1967 was unusually dry, and lightning had ignited many fires in the park, so ranger staff was spread thin. Rangers elected to ignore reports of bears acting aggressively while dealing with more pressing threats. The author made it clear that the general attitude and understanding of grizzlies was that they were afraid of humans and as long as you didn’t surprise them, they wouldn’t attack. I’m not sure why the two attacks happened so close together in timing, or why the two victims were so similar, but it is clear that the warning signs were easy to see. The book is a unique balance of documentary content painting the beauty of the park, mixed with horror and suspense because the inevitable bear attacks are coming. It is fascinating. For me, the moral of the story is to always respect nature, especially the big, scary animals. 


This is for hunters, conservationists, and backcountry campers. 

(Rated PG-13, score 9/10, audiobook read by Kevin Pierce, 6:40)


Currently Reading-

Cold Eyes by Peter Cameron

Many Waters by Madeleine L’Engle


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. It might help you manage your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

This quote found me recently:

“‘It’s dark because you’re trying too hard,’ said Susila. ‘Dark because you want it to be light. Remember what you used to tell me when I was a little girl. “Lightly, child, lightly. You’ve got to learn to do everything lightly. Think lightly, act lightly, feel lightly. Yes, feel lightly, even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them.” I was so preposterously serious in those days. … Lightly, lightly—it was the best advice ever given me. … So throw away all your baggage and go forward. There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. That’s why you must walk so lightly. Lightly, my darling.’” — Aldous Huxley


My Granny passed away this month, and as I was processing the big emotions that come with such a loss, my siblings helped. My brother had this perfect idea. We (separately, cause we are scattered across the country) went to the store and got some Cap’n Crunch. We even decided on the same two kinds. Opening those boxes was like opening a window to the past. The smell immediately took me back to when Granny would visit, and she would bring us each a box of Cap’n Crunch. It was a treat. It was a gift. It was consistent. It was one of the things we looked forward to. It was light. It was kind. It was (now) healing. So, when you are taking yourself too seriously, try something light, like Cap’n Crunch. When you are sad, reach for those moments when you were most alive and free, like a kid on a sugar high. Nothing heals a pity party better than generosity. Shake off fear by connecting with your favorite people. 


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua