Tuesday, September 30, 2025

FROM THE SPINE - SEPTEMBER 2025 BOOK REVIEWS

September 2025

September went by so fast. Work has been hectic, school has kept the kids busy, and we took some trips up to Great Bend for some side quests to help Grandpa Buzz. My right leg does not like that road trip. 


Anyway, here are the books I finished and my reviews of them:


Fiction Books

The Castle Lyre by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #3)

Book 3 of The Chronicles of Prydain starts with Taran (the assistant pig keeper), Gurgi, and Princess Eilonwy departing their home under the care of Dallben the enchanter. The princess is going to Dinas Rhydnant to be trained/grown into a proper princess. Taran, Caw the crow, and Gurgi provide company on the voyage. They meet the blundering Prince Rhun, who is as accident-prone as he is cheerful. Once in Dinas Rhydnant, the crew is joined by the bard, Fflewddur Fflam, and they are warned of danger for the princess by a disguised Prince Gwydion. Before the heroes can unravel the evil plot, the princess is kidnapped. The search and rescue effort is launched, but Prince Rhun manages to get lost, causing Taran and the bard to separate from the search for the princess to rescue the prince. They stumble into a cavern occupied by a giant named Glew. When the crew finally escapes, they rejoin Gwydion and give him two powerful magical artifacts meant for Princess Eilonwy. They find the princess in her ancient home, the Castle of Llyr, but she is enchanted by Achren, the evil sorceress who arranged for the kidnapping. In the end, they are saved by the Princess, who destroys the ancient magic, the castle, and Achren’s magic. My favorite line from the book comes when an old farmer is trying to help Taran work through his feelings of missing the princess: “There is nothing like work to put the heart at rest.”


This book is for assistant pig keepers, workers, protectors, and kids.

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by James Langton, 4:42) 


Over Sea, Under Stone by Susan Cooper

The Drew children are on holiday with their great-uncle Merry. They are staying in a great old Gray House in the village of Trewissick. Simon, Jane, and Barney are left to their own devices one rainy afternoon, and they go exploring in the old house. In a deep corner of the attic, they discover an ancient manuscript. Together, they work to uncover the secrets of the ancient text and map. But every proper treasure hunt comes with danger, enemies, and frantic chases. The kids work out new ways to see the world and new ways to solve puzzles. Great-uncle Merry guides the children on their quest, trying to protect them from the evil that would steal the treasure and allowing them to use their brains and creativity to find their way. The kids follow the clues to find the treasure over sea and under stone. This was a fun little book. I enjoyed the characters, the battle between the light and the dark, and the echoes of King Arthur. 


This is for adventurers, treasure-hunters, and seekers. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Alex Jennings, 7:20)


This Inevitable Ruin by Matt Dinniman (Dungeon Crawler Carl #7)

Carl and Princess Donut have finally arrived at the fabled Ninth Floor and Faction Wars. They have managed to buy a spot in the war, making them warlords. The whole floor is a massive war between nine armies. There can only be one winning team. All others die. The leaders of the other teams have been drawn into the dungeon. The rules this time are different. The characters who usually play at war without any real consequences are now physically vulnerable. If you die in Faction Wars, you die forever. No more respawning outside the dungeon. This raises the stakes tremendously. Donut and Katia have additional drama to deal with on this floor, caused by a unique item they each wore in previous books. To survive, they must eliminate the Naga army and kill the Naga Queen (who has never been killed before in Faction Wars). This side quest eats up a bunch of time and resources as the countdown to full hostilities keeps the other armies at bay. The Princess Posse army is joined by many mercenaries who are former crawlers who return to the dungeon to exact some revenge on the enemies responsible for their trauma. The former crawlers use all their extensive knowledge, skills, tricks, and subterfuge to bring chaos and death to their enemies. The first half of the book is a lot of political posturing and philosophical droning. It got dark and boring for me. But the second half is non-stop chaos, war, traps, twists, and gore. It took me several weeks to get through the first half, but the second half hooked me, and I finished it in a couple of days. This is the last published book in the series so far. I couldn’t find a release date for book 8. I saw guesses ranging from next month to next summer, so you'll get a break from these bizarre books for a bit. 


This is for warriors, tricksters, and not for the easily offended. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Jeff Hays, 28:40, ebook, 724p.) 


Taran Wanderer by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #4)

True to the title, in this book, Taran, the Assistant Pig-Keeper, goes wandering. His goal is to determine who his parents are. He wishes to determine if he has royal blood so that he might be worthy of asking Princess Eilonwy to marry him. He journeys to the Marshes of Morva to consult with the three witches (fates). They send him looking for the Mirror of Llunet. Taran meets many people on his journey to find the mirror. He provides wise counsel to King Smite and almost becomes his heir, but presses on. Taran and his companions battle a sorcerer who is bent on ruling the dwarves. Taran finds an old sheepherder who claims to be his father. Taran is devastated by this news, and yet, he honors the man by helping him prepare for winter. Taran learns the man had lied only after better understanding himself. Taran works as a swordsmith, a weaver, and a potter, but these trades do not hold his heart. Eventually, Taran finds the Mirror of Llunet and learns that it has been the journey and the lessons along the way that have made him who he is. They have proven his character. 


This book is for the wanderers, the seekers, the dreamers, and the craftsmen. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by James Langton, 6:19)


Yumi and the Nightmare Painter by Brandon Sanderson 

Yumi is a yoki-hijo. Nikaro is a nightmare painter. They are both nineteen years old, and they live in totally different worlds. The spirits need their help. The spirits create a link between the two unlikely heroes, which turns their worlds inside out. They start body/space swapping. Nikaro wakes up in Yuma’s body, and Yumi is there with him, but in spirit form. Then, when Nikaro falls asleep, he wakes up in his apartment in spirit form with Yumi. But Yumi is in her own body. It’s like Freaky Friday, but more complicated. In Yumi’s world, the spirits are seeking freedom from a dark machine that enslaves them. In Nikaro’s world, there is a stable nightmare haunting his city, and the nightmare painters are not ready for it. This is a funny, awkward story with fantastic roots and memorable characters. Yumi learns to break free of tradition and ritual for their own sake and grow into her own power. Nikaro learns how to face his past, reclaim his genius, and his friends, and paint more than just bamboo. The story is bright, romantic, and fun. My favorite part was Yumi discovering the carnival for the first time and how Nikaro explains carnival food, games, and rides. “Human exhilaration is a renewable resource. And you can generate it with cheap stuffed animals and fried foods.” Also, the illustrations are amazing. The story has twists and turns. Each chapter has discoveries and expansions. 


This is for artists and anyone looking for a unique story.

(Rated PG, Score 9/10, audiobook read by Kate Reading and Michael Kramer, 14:43)


Calamity by Brandon Sanderson (Reckoners #3)

David Charleston and his crew are desperate. They are so desperate for cash and resources that they are planning a raid on the Nighthawk foundry. David is the leader now that Prof has fully embraced his epic powers and the darkness that comes with them. David, Cody, Abraham, Megan, and Mizzy are locked and loaded. The crew plans to attack the foundry to fund one last mission to rescue or kill Prof in the amazing moving salt city called Ildithia, formerly known as Atlanta. The crew makes their way to the salt city and goes hunting for a hideout spot. Prof is busy trying to take over the city with his evil powers. He is hunting Larcener, who is a powerful epic with the power to steal powers from other epics. David finds a clue that leads him to a new source of intel needed to run an op against Prof. The Reckoners hope to steal the information Prof is using to rule the city and discover what his endgame is. Throughout the story, David seeks to understand how epics might overcome the darkness tied to their powers. He uses clues and Megan’s experiences. He is unsuccessful until he comes face-to-face with Calamity himself. I’m not sure I understand how it all shakes out in the end, so I’ll have to go through it again. I did enjoy the story, the action, the characters, and the twists. In this story, my favorite character is Nighthawk. He’s weird, quirky, and funny. 


This is for heroes, villains, and epics. 

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, audiobook read by MacLeod Andrews, 12:18) 


Non-Fiction Books

Whisper by Mark Batterson

Whisper is a book about how to hear the voice of God. Part one defines the power of a whisper. Part two describes the seven love languages that God uses to communicate with us: Scripture, desires, doors, dreams, people, promptings, and pain. I was hoping this would be more of a “how-to” guide to discerning the voice of God in my life. It turns out that there probably is no such book written like a user's manual for us engineer types. Instead, it’s a set of stories that sneak up on the truth from different perspectives. I think it is the nature of God in our world to not speak to us (or at least to most of us) directly. We would probably explode. Instead, he whispers through our circumstances. Because God speaks only in whispers, we must be deliberate about listening for them. And when we do hear them, we must use faith to interpret them and courage to act on them. The whispers of God can feel foreign, counterintuitive, and crazy in our broken world. I’ve been trying to listen to the voice of God. Some days it feels like Felix Felicis in the Harry Potter books. It’s just a gentle nudge in the right direction, and if you dare to do the things it suggests, you will see the magic of the Kingdom shining through into our world. Sometimes, what the Spirit is doing won't make sense on this side of eternity. Other times, the plan becomes obvious almost immediately. 


This book is for seekers and listeners.

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, paperback, 240p.)


The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins

I’ve been hearing a lot about this book from different directions. I don’t always trust a popular book. For example, I was about a decade late to the Harry Potter party. My curiosity got the better of me, so I spent one of my Audible credits (because I wasn’t going to wait 38 weeks for a library copy to be available). Here’s what I found:


The book has 20 chapters. The first 10 cover the theory and how it applies to you (the reader). Chapters 11 through 20 are about the Let Them Theory and its application to relationships. 


Here’s where I got a little frustrated. I’m an engineer, so when I pick up a book about a theory, I expect it to actually have a theory in it. I want something to test. Something useful for predicting the world. Spoiler- no scientific theory here. Theory is the wrong word. Let Them is a mindset tool, not a theory. Sorry. I digress.


So, Let Them is about letting go (like Frozen). Let other people do what they are going to do, feel how they are going to feel, and act how they are going to act. Stop trying to control them. This frees you from being responsible for other people’s emotions, failures, regrets, and baggage. Let Them is a way to establish boundaries and figure out who you are, where you end, and where other people begin. If you have an underdeveloped sense of self-worth, this mindset shift could feel completely foreign, dangerous, and immensely freeing. 


There’s a second half of the “theory” that doesn’t get as much publicity - Let Me. First, you say “Let Them.” Then, you say, “Let me.” So you let other people do what they are going to do. You establish boundaries. You let go of trying to control other people. And then you lean into the things you can control, which is yourself. Let Me is where all the discipline, motivation, and self-help magic comes in. Let Me is taking responsibility for your own destiny. 


I struggled a bit with this book because there was some good content thoroughly blended with some weird stories, incompletely developed (or conflicting) ideas, and aspects I don’t need, like the dating bit. My reading philosophy of “take the good and forget the rest” got a good workout with this one. I got bogged down reading the intro (I actually didn’t finish it). Here are some of the ideas that stuck with me: 

  1. Most adults are like 8-year-olds who don’t know how to handle emotions properly. 
  2. Emotions are like waves. 
  3. Be aware of stress, alcohol, hunger, and exhaustion, and their effects on your emotions.
  4. Friendship needs these three pillars: Proximity, timing, and energy. 
  5. To make friends, go first. 
  6. Compliment people, be curious, smile, and do all these things without expectations when trying to make new friends. 
  7. Adults only do what they feel like doing. They lean into pleasure and avoid pain. Everyone thinks they are the exception. 
  8. Stop trying to pressure people into changing. Model the change you want to see. 
  9. Only compare yourself to others in an effort to learn from them; otherwise, it’s just torture or trying to hype yourself up.


There’s a lot of the same content in other books like Boundaries and Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, but those are less sparkly, trendy, and sexy. Obviously, this book resonates with lots of people, so some of the ideas must be useful. Maybe I’m not the average reader Mel is trying to reach, and that’s ok. 


This is for anyone looking for permission to let go of trying to control other adults. 

(Rated R, Score 6/10, Audiobook read by the author, 10:38)



Preview/Currently Reading-

The Fault In Our Stars by John Green

The Unseen Realm by Michael S. Reiser

The High King by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #5)


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. It might help manage your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

I had lunch with a young man today, and we talked about all kinds of things: engineering school, music, good Mexican food, family dysfunction, and plans for the future. What impressed me was that my friend had taken the time to write notes about his thoughts on The Let Them Theory. He made an observation that stuck with me. I’ll probably butcher it, but here’s how I understood it. Let Them is incomplete. It’s probably ok in some circumstances. Necessary in others. But there’s nuance to every situation. We are not called to just let people alone. Sometimes, we are the lifeline people are clinging to. We are called to love, rescue, and protect. The power is in the choices we make. We have the power to choose to help people. Not all situations are as simple as walking away or letting go. The book neglects this tension, or worse, promotes self above all else. Let us not forget the connections we have to others and our power to make good choices.


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua


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Monday, September 1, 2025

FROM THE SPINE - AUGUST 2025 BOOK REVIEWS

August 2025

Sadness comes in waves. August has been so hard. We lost Papa. Well, we didn’t lose him. He couldn’t exactly run off. He lost a long battle with cancer. Thank you so much to all of you who reached out, showed up, and pitched in as we struggled through. Millie and I have been rock climbing. I’ve been trying to do some more running, but I’m still recovering strength in my right side from my surgeries and injury, so I run in circles. I’m still working on managing stress by trying out several new things, including meditating. So far, nothing works as well as shotguns.


I was going to put this in the Final Thoughts, but it’s important enough to lead with: 

Here is a 1-minute video that could save a life. It only takes 8 minutes of connection or support to help a person out of darkness. “Do you have 8 minutes?” is a code that means I need you. This code makes it easier to ask for help. It is a prearranged permission and urgency. If you ever need help, text it to me or someone you trust. Thank you, Aleksandr, for sharing this with me.


Anyway, here are the books I finished and my reviews of them:


Fiction Books

We Are Legion (We Are Bob) by Dennis E. Taylor (Bobiverse #1)

Bob is a nerd. He sells his software company for a major payday and is getting ready to embark on a new adventure when his career (and life) take a drastic turn. Bob wakes up in the year 2133. His body is gone. His consciousness is all he knows. He’s in a lab with a scientist walking him through reanimation. Bob is a new, advanced replicant who will be launched into space on a probe with the mission of exploring the stars and finding habitable planets for humans. Bob uses his software and engineering background to build all kinds of things, including a VR space. As Bob is launched on his mission, Earth deteriorates into war. Bob escapes several attacks, including physical and viral attacks. He blasts out of the solar system and heads into space. Using new printing technology and robots, Bob can harvest elements and create all kinds of things, including new Bob’s. Bob makes each of his clones take a new name and they each take up new missions as they are created., Some travel back to Earth to see what has happened to the humans after they went nuclear. Some explore other star systems. Bob studies a few planets and gets involved in helping a race of pig-bat-things that he discovers. The Bobs continue to develop their technology, including FTL (faster-than-light) communications, railguns, and so on. The Bobs fight with the Brazilian probe and its copies. It is less interested in exploration and more military-minded. The Bobs also rescue the Australian probe, who has lost grip on reality. 


This is a fun, engineering/nerdish book with lots of Star Trek references. The adventure and exploration aspects are interesting. The author doesn’t get too serious about the physics, but he doesn’t ignore them either. Thanks, Luke and Max, for reminding me about this book. Now I need to see if the second book is as good. 


This is for Von Neumann fans and anyone who loves some good space adventure.

(Rated PG-13 (some language), Score 8/10, audiobook read by Ray Porter, 9:56)


Fermentation by Seth Ring (Battle Mage Farmer #4)

Ferdie is still my favorite character in these books. He is John’s bull, but since John has been feeding him mana crystals, he has developed some interesting skills and attributes. He’s intelligent, he can change his size, and he has flaming hooves and horns when he gets mad. John has a quest to grow enough wheat to feed the world, but he keeps getting distracted by side quests. In this book, he and Ellie travel to a hidden mage tower. They return some rogue mages whom they captured. The mages were causing trouble in the valley by trying to make the villagers and peasants into slaves. John is very anti-slavery. Later in the story, John finds a massive portal where the beasts are planning an invasion of John’s world. The beast guarding the portal accidentally reveals a dangerous truth to John. He identifies John as a dragon. John realizes that he has a big, bad, nasty dragon attached to his soul, waiting to regain enough strength to take over John’s body. With this new revelation, John realizes he can’t just slag enemy armies anymore because it will strengthen the dragon. In the battle at the end of the book, John learns of a new order of mages, the Order of the New Dawn, who are threatening peace. And if mages using slave curses and mind control weren’t bad enough, John also learns that his world will soon be invaded by evil space pirates. All the dude wants to do is farm, but the world keeps getting itself back in jeopardy. 


When John is reeling from the dragon on his soul realization, Ellie puts him to work in the garden and tells him, “Pain, suffering, and confusion all distort the world, bending it in such a way that our instinct is to look within ourselves. Yet in doing so, we lose our grounding, coming untethered from what is real. Fight pain with beauty, fight confusion with simplicity.” As I work through stress and pain lately, I’ve been trying to use beauty and simplicity to find my way back. 


This is for farmers and questers.

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, ebook, 422p.)


The Book of Three by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #1) 

This book (and series) is great for all ages. In this book, Taran, a young man, is whisked away on an amazing adventure. Taran begins as a young assistant Pig-Keeper, with dreams of fighting and adventure, but when evil invades the realm in the form of the Horned King and a host of evil soldiers, Taran finds himself in many dangers. Along his journey, he collects a band of misfits, and together they form a fellowship on a mission to warn the House of Dôn of the Horned Kings’ impending attack. The characters in his group include Gurgi, a half-man, half-animal who was living in the woods, the Princess Eilonwy (who is hilarious, and much better at metaphors and similes than some other characters we’ve been reading), a bard named Fflewddur Fflam, and a dwarf named Doli. Taran makes many mistakes as he leads the others, and yet, there is a feel of destiny about him. In spite of his weaknesses and mistakes, his love, courage, and faithfulness allow him and his friends to destroy the Horned King and save each other. I love this story. Millie’s favorite part of the story is the piggy, Hen Wen, who has the power to tell the hero the evil true name of the Horned King. Evil, when named by its true name, crumbles. 


I recommend this book for anyone (young or old) who loves an adventure story. 

(Rated PG, Score 9/10, Audiobook read by James Langton, 5:05)


The Black Cauldron by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #2)

In book two, Taran, the Assistant Pig-Keeper, and his friends attempt a brave raid against the evil enemy of their world. Led by Gwydion, Prince of Dôn, the party sets out to find and steal the Black Cauldron from Arawn (this feels a lot like an assault on Mordor). Arawn uses the Black Cauldron to create his deathless soldiers called the Cauldron Born. Taran finds himself in a prideful rivalry with Ellidyr, Prince of Pen-Llarcau. Taran is goaded into foolish tussles at first and, in the end, is betrayed by the arrogant prince. Taran’s friends from the first book (Gurgi, Princess Eilonwy, Doli, and Fflewddur Fflam) all play parts in the adventure. Taran leads them to discover and win the Black Cauldron, and eventually to destroy it, though at grievous cost. Millie’s favorite part of this adventure is when the warriors are joined by the runaway princess who refused to be left behind. I like the part where Taran negotiates with the three fates for the Black Cauldron. His friends offer their greatest treasures for his sake. What would you trade for the chance to destroy a weapon of death and ruin? What would you sacrifice for the safety of your closest friends?

This is for adventurers and those in need of a good fellowship story. 

(Rated PG, Score 9/10, audiobook read by James Langton, 5:26)


The Sunlit Man by Brandon Sanderson

Nomad is a runner. He awakes on a strange planet and resumes running for his life. He has two problems: the immediate danger of a world with a sun that melts and destroys everything in its path once per day, and the Night Brigade, who are chasing him through the Cosmere. Nomad and his spren, Auxillary (Aux), learn to run from the sunrise on the planet Canticle, where staying stationary is death. Cities are made up of ships that fly and bolt together. Nomad joins a flying city of rebels. The rebels are fighting for survival against the Cinder King, who rules like a bully, hoarding wealth and power. Nomad and Aux use their special bond and skills to help the rebels escape from the sunrise and the Cinder King, but time and power are short. Their options dwindle. Their time draws short. Only sacrifices and miracles keep the rebels alive. Only the extreme pressure of imminent death can cause the discovery of secrets and capacities needed for survival. 


This is for runners, fighters, and rebels. 

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, audiobook read by William DeMeritt, 11:11)


Gregor the Overland by Suzanne Collins (Underland Chronicles #1)

Gregor and his little sister, Boots, fall into Underland through their laundry room grate. In the Underland, they are rescued and taken to Regalia, which is an underground human city. Gregor tries to escape with Boots, but he is discovered by vicious, human-sized rats who try to eat him. All the creatures in the Underland are giant. The humans and bats rescue the children and teach them about “The Prophecy of the Gray”. The children are destined to save the Underland. They begin the quest to fulfill the prophecy. The quest includes humans and their bonded bats, cockroaches (who talk funny), spiders, and even an old rat. The fellowship seeks to rescue Gregor’s father, who has been a prisoner of the rats for almost two years. The questers bash and sneak and fly all around the Underland until they have satisfied all of the prophecy’s lines. Gregor transforms into a brave warrior and takes on an authority only earned by adventure. I’ll have to listen to this one with the kids. Thank you, Max, for recommending it. There were two ideas that stuck in my mind from the story. First, time is our most precious resource. Use it wisely. Second, we judge too often by exterior appearances when we should judge by actions. Like Boots, we should let go of our prejudices and treat all people with kindness and inclusion. 


This is for young questers and fliers. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Paul Boehmer, 6:33)


Non-Fiction Books

Prepared by Mike Glover

Some books speak to our core fears. This book helped me through some of mine, though it took me a while to process, and I’m still absorbing its lessons. This book is equal parts mindset and practical advice. The perspective on being prepared for the worst day of your life was surprisingly healthy and helpful. Doomsday preppers are not portrayed in the kindest light, and the author does his best to work through that stereotype and explain his perspective. The goal is not to hoard resources in a bunker. The goal is to build a thriving, more self-sufficient lifestyle through careful thought and deliberate actions. The goal is to build a community that is ready to handle emergencies and hard times. The goal is to expand your capabilities to survive and thrive through gear, training, and practice. These are all more worthy (and achievable) goals than what my fears tell me I should be doing. 


The book is laid out in seven chapters. First, Glover covers mindset. This is the most philosophical part of the book. This part was a bit hard for me because I have a pretty good imagination, and I can easily think of all kinds of bad things that can happen. Glover balances the big, bad, scary things by mixing in the importance of being ready for smaller, more common threats like car accidents and weather emergencies. Overall, the book is balanced. That is, it describes bad things that can (and will) happen, and explains how being prepared helps us survive and thrive and ultimately have more peace in our daily lives. He also points out that ignorance and arrogance are two excuses for not planning. Both are dangerous. 


Second, he covers planning. He uses PACE- Primary, Alternate, Contingency, and Emergency- to describe the type of plans that can be implemented for different scenarios. An easy example is a fire escape plan. The primary plan would be to go out the front door. The alternate plan is to use the back door. The contingency plan is to use a window. The emergency plan is to get out by any means necessary, including breaking windows or possibly jumping from higher windows than would be safe (were it not an emergency). The author walks through several PACE examples throughout the rest of the book. The point is to think through how you can react if the normal way you do things isn’t possible or if things go wrong. 


Third, the author discusses situational awareness. We tend to go through life absorbed in our own thoughts, often on autopilot. This is not a great way to see danger coming. Glover recommends taking at least one day a week to practice situational awareness- seeing people and events, training yourself to pay attention to the baseline behaviors of your environment, and learning to tell when things are off or weird. These early warnings can help us act more quickly in a developing situation, but not if we can’t see them. 


Chapter 4 is about decisions. When we observe things being off, we must be willing to act. We can’t freeze. Glover calls it “Getting off the X”. In a fire, you must be able to get out of the building. In a hurricane, you have to be able to evacuate. In an active shooter scenario, you have to be ready to move, break windows to escape, or potentially fight for your life. In this chapter, Glover also discusses the question: What are your criteria for deciding to use deadly force? There is a fascinating description of a scenario the author uses in training to help people understand the difficulties and nuances involved in making such a tough decision. I appreciated that Glover didn’t offer simple answers. The question is one to wrestle with. He did offer some simple advice to help- if you can run, or end the scenario without fighting or killing, you absolutely should, but if you can’t, if fighting and killing is the only way to keep you and your family safe, you should be trained and ready to end the confrontation as quickly and effectively as possible. Glover recommended When Violence Is the Answer as a resource for learning about this tough concept. It’s on my list now. This can be a controversial area. I found Glover’s ideas to be calm, insightful, and well-balanced. 


Chapters five, six, and seven are similar in nature and build on each other from personal to community. Chapter five covers what to include in your Everyday Carry (EDC) kit. Six covers mobility and how to prepare to be mobile in an emergency, basically, your vehicle. Seven covers the homestead. A simple way Glover describes these is like a medic (EDC), an ambulance (mobility), and a hospital (homestead). The goal is to have enough equipment for security and survival to expand your capabilities and give yourself every advantage possible when things go wrong. Glover covers survival needs in order of urgency. It doesn’t make much sense to worry about things that might kill you in the long term if you need to deal with things that can kill you right now. Wounds and injuries can kill in seconds or minutes after a car crash. Exposure to the elements can kill you in a few hours if you can’t figure out shelter. Dehydration will kill you in about three days if you can’t find drinking water. Hunger will kill you in about three weeks or so if you don’t have any food. So your plans and equipment need to be ready and staged in a way to allow you to address immediate needs with speed, and also provide for solutions for long-term problems. 


I will have to revisit this book over time as I absorb its lessons and work on being a more capable human. I have started to expand my situational awareness. I’ve always loved collecting gear. I need some land to start a homestead. If you have extra, shoot me a message. 


This is for anyone looking for ideas about being more self-sufficient.

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook by the author, 5:14)


Preview/Currently Reading-

Whisper by Mark Batterson

This Inevitable Ruin by Matt Dinniman (Dungeon Crawler Carl #7)

The Castle of Lyre by Lloyd Alexander (Chronicles of Prydain #3)

The Unseen Realm by Michael S. Heiser

Calamity by Brandon Sanderson (Reckoners #3)

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins 

Transformation by Seth Ring (Battle Mage Farmer #5)


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. It might help manage your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

GLS (Global Leadership Summit) happened without me this year. Family comes first. I was fortunate enough to get a link to watch the sessions online. I’ve studied two of them. First, Juliet Funt taught about quitting things. We should all be quitting things that don’t generate value. What an amazing way to free up time and make ourselves happier and more productive. Second, Jon Acuff talked about giving ourselves and our teams permission to dream, plan, do, and review.  He also talked about reprogramming ourselves to be more positive. Being positive has a much higher ROI than being negative. Coming out of a dark place, I am actively trying to rewire my brain to be more positive. I invite you to call me out if I’m being negative. 


I’ve been fairly sheltered from loss as a human. It seems I am growing out of that luck. We cannot avoid death. It comes for us all. We cannot be protected from it for long. As we mourn and grieve, we are often foggy. We get lost in our thoughts and darkness. We had so many people offer support and help. For the most part, we had no idea what help we needed. Several people brought food. Food helps tremendously. Some folks offered to watch the kids so Aubrey and I could talk through some difficult decisions. This was a huge help. 


But the kindness that made the biggest impact on me came from my sister-in-law, Amanda. She texted me and asked how they could support us, then she immediately changed her mind. She has suffered more than her fair share of grief, and as she looked back, she realized that even though that sentiment was well-intentioned, it put the burden on others to think up ideas in a fog. So she just thought up some things and put the Amazon delivery guy to work. She sent gifts to distract the kids and Aubrey, and chocolate. Chocolate is the best way to recover from dementors, so it’s gotta be good for grief too. The gifts she sent made a huge difference. They were a bright spot in a dark week. They were special because we didn’t have to think about them. They were special because they were so thoughtful. Thank you, Amanda, for teaching me this new way of supporting people in grief.


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua

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