Tuesday, November 30, 2021

FROM THE SPINE - NOVEMBER 2021 BOOK REVIEWS

 November 2021

In November we vote, thank Veterans for their service, and thank God for his provisions. I’m going to say thank you by having another giveaway. The details are at the end of this email. I’m thankful for this community of readers. Thank you for all your feedback, book ideas, and connections. 


Here are the books I finished in November 2021 and my short reviews of them:

Fiction Books

Exit Strategy by Martha Wells (Murderbot #4)

Murderbot still doesn’t know what it wants to be when it grows up, but now it has a problem. The evil corporation (GrayCris) that it has been researching in books two and three thinks that Dr. Mensah sent a rogue SecUnit (Murderbot) to sabotage them and blackmail them. So they snatched Dr. Mensah. Book four is the story of Murderbot rescuing Dr. Mensah from GrayCris again. Murderbot is reunited with Dr. Mensah’s crew who is trying to ransom Dr. Mensah back. With Murderbot’s help, the team sets up an exchange, steals the Dr., and manages to make it to their shuttle. GrayCris, thinking Murderbot has all the blackmail data with him, tries to destroy the whole ship. Murderbot manages to trick the vicious attacker and save the crew, but he suffers a complete meltdown and takes months to recover. Murderbot still doesn’t like humans or having emotions about them, but it is beginning to show a pattern of saving the ones that are good to him. 


This book is for the snarky reader, the rushed reader, and sci-fi fans. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 3:46) 


Ballistic by Mark Greaney (Gray Man #3)

The Gray Man is being hunted. The CIA, Russians, and quite a few other acronyms are after him.  He dodges a kill team in South America and is making his way back north when he learns about the passing of an old friend in Mexico. Court stops by the grave of Eddie Gamboa (who saved Court’s life several years earlier) in Mexico to pay his respects. At the grave, Court meets Eddie’s pregnant wife who is in a war with the Mexican drug-lord Daniel de la Rocha. Court steps in and does his best to protect Eddie’s family against multiple attacks by the assassins of Daniel de la Rocha, the crazy drug lord who killed Eddie. De la Rocha’s men capture the Gray Man and Laura, Eddie’s little sister, but with the help of the CIA, Court escapes. Then Court goes ballistic on de la Rocha’s operations. Court attacks the operation at all levels- bankers, money launderers, drug distribution, drug manufacturing, and crooked cops. Court costs de la Rocha millions upon millions of dollars in a few days causing an eventual show-down with the mad drug lord. This is a crazy intense story from start to finish; it is not for snowflakes. Knowing a little Spanish helps.


This book is for action junkies, thriller fans, and outlaws.

(Rated R, Score 9/10, audiobook read by Jay Snyder, 14:09)


Journey to the Center of the Earth by Jules Verne

I guess science worked differently back in the mid-1900s, or at least fictional accounts of scientific journeys worked in a way that I find sketchy. Harry and his uncle professor Hardwick head off on a trip to find the center of the earth based on a coded message found in an old book … because science?! Anyway, they travel to Iceland, hire a guide (Hans), and climb an old volcano. They find a steep chimney in the volcano and using ropes, they descend into the depths. The trio follows the path down for several days, eventually choosing a wrong path, which almost kills them when they don't find water. They backtrack, choose a new path, and eventually find more water by chipping a hole in the rock and tapping an underground water vein. The water follows them on their trip to an underground sea. At one point Harry gets lost, panics, smacks his head, and almost dies. At the giant sea, Hans makes a raft, and the crew sails for many leagues finding ancient species of fish, sea monsters, and weather. A violent storm tosses them around for several “days and nights” (cause they can’t see the sun underground) and eventually spits them out on the shore. The group finds a massive chunk of granite blocking their path so they do the only logical thing – they blow it up. The problem is the blast drains the sea into an abyss that was on the other side of the blockage. Riding the raft the adventures plummet to the depths on the moving water and then get blasted to the surface of the earth through an active volcano in Italy. Thanks, Mom for sending this to me. 


This book is for adventurers, young explorers, and scientists. 

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, paperback, audiobook read by Norman Dietz, 10:07)


Dead Eye by Mark Greaney (Gray Man #4)

Gray Man has a bad habit of making very powerful enemies like the CIA, Mexican Drug-lords, and Russian Mob bosses. At the start of book four, he is trying to eliminate some of the threats against him by executing a one-man takedown of his previous Russian employer. He assaults the Russian stronghold from a microlight airplane, kills Gregor Sidorenko, and shoots his way clear. The problem is that CIA contractors at Townsend House track Court by drone as he runs away. Townsend House singleton operator Dead Eye then begins to hunt Court for his ends. Dead Eye is like the dark side version of the Gray Man. He has the same training and skills, but he is a psychopath. Dead Eye and Court leave a trail of bodies across Europe as they careen toward an inevitable confrontation. Along the way, we learn the details of the Kyiv op that Gentry is legend for, and Court makes a single ally in the Mossad, who gives Court the keys to get back to America. 


This book is for cowboys, Bourne fans, and people needing a book that will keep them up past their bedtimes over the holidays. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Jay Snyder, 14:05)


Network Effect by Martha Wells (Murderbot #5)

Murderbot stars in his first full-length novel. It’s just a longer story than the first four. Same snark, same allergy to emotions, same saving the humans. Murderbot starts the story on a survey trip trying to save his humans from space pirates. The team escapes, killing a few of the hostiles only to be captured by a different spaceship and dragged through a wormhole. Turns out the different ship is ART, the ship that helps Murderbot in book two, but ART is in trouble. ART’s crew has been kidnapped by alien-contaminated humans. Murderbot helps restore ART, find and rescue his crew, and destroy the alien construct that attacked the humans. Along the adventure, Murderbot gets captured by the bad guys. ART, the humans, and a new rogue SecBot team up to rescue Murderbot. Murderbot is used to be expendable, so it has lots of emotions about being rescued. It hates having emotions. The interior dialog that narrates the story is hilarious. 


This book is for adventurers, alien-seekers, and jokesters. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 12:47)


Non-Fiction Books

Winning the War In Your Mind by Craig Groeschel

“A lie believed as truth will affect your life as if it’s true.“ What lies are you believing? What negative self-talk are you constantly repeating in your inner dialog? Groeschel shares the tools he has used to battle his own lies and negative thoughts. We are becoming our strongest thoughts, so we better be pretty careful what we spend our time and energy thinking. Part 1 describes the replacement principle- Remove the lies and replace them with the truth. Examine your thoughts, write them down, and then, with an open mind, examine and critique them. Find the lies, and then seek out God’s truth. Claim those truths in your life and refute the lies. One of the lies I am trying to replace in my life is that I don’t have “enough” (enough money, enough food, enough emergency fund, and so on). God has always provided for me and I am learning to turn to replace the lie of scarcity, with the truth of God’s provision. Part 2 teaches the rewire principle- rewire your brain and renew your mind. We fall into patterns of thinking; good and bad habits of thought. We must be deliberate about building the correct neural pathways that provide truth, renewal, and purpose. I am building new pathways by memorizing God’s word. Part 3 outlines the reframe principle- reframe your mind and restore your perspective. This is the same principle as described in “The Obstacle is the Way”. How can we take our circumstances and see them in new ways that make them more meaningful? How can we turn problems into opportunities? How can we see unanswered prayers as blessings later down the road? I am reframing problems at work as opportunities to learn and grow. Part 4 wraps up with the rejoice principle- revive your soul and reclaim your life. When you stop looking at your problem and start looking at your God, he can calm your heart and help you solve the problem. When you look beyond your problem, you are better able to see how it will help you grow. When you praise God instead of worrying, it changes your brain chemistry and makes you healthier, happier, and more resilient. This is the hardest lesson in the book. It takes a new level of maturity and resilience to choose to praise God in stressful and devastating moments. I’m not there yet, but I’m trying. 


This book is for anyone looking to improve their thought life. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by the author, 4:59)


Atomic Habits by James Clear

Habits are fascinating to me. The psychology and physiology that drive habits are not always super intuitive. In the book, Clear breaks down habits and how to use them and stack them into your daily life. The goal of using habits is to start small and allow small, incremental changes to stack up to remarkable gains and success over time. A habit is a pattern- a cue, a craving, a response, and a reward. Our bodies and brains are wired to use habits to free up brain capacity for more important tasks. The power of habits comes in the automaticity they provide. When presented with a cue for an established habit, we will execute the rest without a lot of energy or thought. So, how do we use habits to do the stuff we want to do (workout, eat better, read, journal, meditate, save money, and so on) and stop doing stuff we don’t want to do (eat all the cookies, watch too much TV, or spend all your money on things you don’t need)? The bulk of the book is written to answer this question using the following methods: 1- Make it obvious. 2- Make it attractive. 3- Make it easy. 4- Make it immediately satisfying. In each of these sections, Clear gives examples of habits you can build or unbuild by using the method. 1- Make it obvious. For habits that you want to build you should make the cue obvious. Put healthy food out in the open in your home and hide or throw away the bad food. If you want to read before you go to sleep, put a book on your pillow when you make your bed. If you want to work out daily, put your workout gear somewhere obvious. Create the optimum environment for your habit to thrive. If you want to break a habit, hide the cues. 2- Make it attractive. Clearly understand why you want to build the habit. We imitate the people we are close to, the crowds we see and the powerful around us. Pick the influences around you to model. Use anticipation of rewards to drive good habits. Use anticipation of punishments or penalties to kill bad habits. Use accountability partners to make habits fun, like workout partners, pen-pals, and financial coaches. 3- Make it easy. Sometimes all you need is a quick win to get some momentum. Make execution as easy as possible or incentivize yourself to complete the habit each day.  If you want to start a workout habit, start going to the gym for 5 minutes each day, then permit yourself to leave. Start a journaling habit by writing one sentence each day and then stopping. Eat better by adding one vegetable per day to your diet. Focus on action and practice, not depth. 4- Make it immediately satisfying. We repeat behaviors that have immediate rewards. Track your progress. Sometimes just tracking a habit is enough of a reward to keep it going. Never miss a habit twice. Missing the second time is the start of a missing habit. There are many useful, practical, actionable tips in this book. I have been trying habit stacking to add new behaviors to habits I already have in place, for example, I am adding a sleep breathing routine to my nightly bedtime ritual. It’s helping me get to sleep faster. I added a thankfulness journal to my morning writing routine. Thanks, Adrian for the recommendation. 


This book is for anyone looking to improve through automation, get big results from small changes, and anyone looking to understand behaviors/habit mechanisms.

(Score 8/10, Rated PG, audiobook read by the author, 5:35)


Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand

Louis Zamperini was a wild child. He grew up stealing and running. Eventually, he poured all his energy into his running, becoming an Olympian in the 5,000-meter race in 1936. Louis wanted to win the Olympics in the mile, but World War II crushed that dream. Louis joined the Army Air Corps and becomes a bombardier on a B-24. His plane, Superman got shot up, but the crew managed to get it home. The crew is assigned to a different B-24, the Green Hornet, which crashes into the Pacific on a search mission. Zamperini, his pilot (Phil), and one other crew member survive the crash and manage to stabilize in two rescue rafts. One of the men dies after losing hope at sea. Louis and Phil crush the record for survival at sea (previously 24 days) by lasting an incredible 46 days before being captured by the Japanese. Out of the frying pan and into the fire. The two men are abused as prisoners of war by the Japanese for the next two and a half years. They are moved from prison camp to prison camp, made to endure brutal cold, starvation, degradations of the most inhumane kinds, and almost killed. Louis and Phil are separated as the war goes on, but both men survive to the end of the war. Louis makes it back to America after Japan surrenders and tries to get back to normal life, but he has no idea what normal is. He gets married and has a child, but suffers severe PTSD and turns to alcohol to drown out the pain. Louis’ miracle turnaround came in a revival tent listening to Rev. Billy Graham. Louis gives his life to God, and God heals his heart and his psyche. Louis forgives his captors and goes on to live a long and full life after his conversion. This is a story of unbelievable pain and matched resilience; a heartbreaking story of grit, power, and will. Thanks, Aunt Sandra for the recommendation. 

 

This story is for the tough, the historians, and those in need of a different perspective.

(Rated R, Score 9/10, audiobook read by Edward Herrmann, 13:56)


Walking with God by John Eldridge

I think I needed this book in this season. It was deeply comforting to my soul. These are stories and feelings from a year of walking with God, talking to Him, learning to hear His words. I’ve always been impressed with Eldridge’s insights. He has a way of writing truths that resonate and ring true. He describes spiritual concepts through his own experiences, giving them color, texture, and depth that help me to understand. The book is seasonal, starting in Summer. Things are good, warm, growing, thriving, listening, and learning. Fall comes and with it a literal fall off of a horse where Eldridge breaks both wrists and loses most of his autonomy. Winter comes with cold, dark, oppressive attacks, and short tempers. Eventually, Spring comes back around and brings hope, restoration, healing, and new life. This isn’t a practical how-to guide like a map; it’s more like a journal holding clues and examples and hints. I’ve never been able to stick to journaling, but I’m going to try to start again. I’ve long been one to talk to God, but I want to learn to listen to His voice for answers more diligently. Spiritually, I’ve been going through a fall/winter season. I’m walking with God out of if it one day at a time. This book was a very helpful reminder that spring is coming. Winter doesn’t last forever. Thanks, Aubrey for the recommendation.


This book is for the seekers, the prayer warriors, and the tired. 

(Rated PG, Score 10/10, hardcover, 218 p.)



Preview/Currently Reading-

Here are the books I am currently working through:

Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins

The Grasshopper Trap by Patrick F. McManus

The Rivers of London by Ben Aaronovitch


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. You might find it helpful in managing your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

I’m thankful that I live in this amazing country, at this crazy time, with ya’ll for friendship and support. I’m also thankful for my Dad. Happy Birthday, Dad!


So, here are the book giveaway details: I’ll give one entry for a suggestion for a book, a blog comment, a brand/business idea for From the Spine, and referrals (friend’s email to join my mailing list). I’ll draw a winner or three on December 15th. Entries can be turned in by text, email, blog comment, or carrier pigeon/screech owl. Millie is my super-impartial drawing helper. Prizes will be the winner’s book of choice. 


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua

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Sunday, October 31, 2021

FROM THE SPINE - OCTOBER 2021 BOOK REVIEWS

 October 2021

This year is flying by. I can’t believe we are already through ten months. We are getting close to the holidays, colder weather, and according to the squirrels, it’s bulking season! That’s what you say to people who are overly concerned about your caloric intake. You are welcome. Also, bulking season lasts till about March. What are your favorite bulking snacks? 


Here are the books I finished in October 2021 and my short reviews of them:


Fiction Books

Artificial Condition by Martha Wells (Murderbot #2)

In book two, murderbot (MB) is wandering around space, trying to find some answers about his past. Traveling on transports by bargaining with the bots or constructs in charge of the ships. One ship computer it nicknames ART helps MB to adjust its behavior, movement, and even physical appearance so it wouldn’t be immediately recognizable as a Security Construct. MB acts as a security consultant for a group of researchers who are being scammed by their employer. While protecting and advising the researchers, MB uncovers critical details from the incident where it got its nickname (murderbot). It turns out that MB was not to blame for the mass murder that happened in the past. The internal dialog that MB records on these adventures is an interesting balance of snark, humor, irony, tech, and emotions. Despite not understanding or liking humans, MB does an excellent job protecting his clients. 


This book is for sci-fi fans, short-book readers, and socially awkward humans. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 3:21)


Blood of Elves by Andrzej Sapkowski (Witcher #1) 

I know it says Witcher Book #1, but it’s more like Witcher #4 or #3.5. The order is a bit lost on me. I’m just running down the chronological list I got from my friend Neale. This book is the story of a young orphan princess named Ciri, who is the Witcher’s destiny. Geralt (The Witcher) finds and rescues Ciri after her home and family are destroyed by the Nilfgaardians. Geralt and the other witchers adopt Ciri at Kaer Morhen- their stronghold. Not knowing much about young girls, the witchers (all male) go with what they know- witcher training for the young girl. Eventually, they reach out to a sorceress, Triss Merigold, for help handling the young lady. Triss stays with the witchers and helps them to raise and care for Ciri. In the spring, Geralt and Triss take Ciri to Ellander, where she is trained in magic by Yennefer while Geralt tries to find a mysterious magician who seeks the orphaned princess. There is an undertone of political strife throughout the book and a lot less battling monsters than the other books so far. It doesn’t take much imagination to see the political jargon between dwarves, humans, and elves could be aimed at us today. If you like the complexities of war strategy and kings like Game of Thrones, you would probably appreciate this book more than I did. So far, this isn’t my favorite Witcher book. Hopefully the next one is better. 


This book is for the strategists and the activists. 

(Rated R, Score 5/10, audiobook read by Peter Kenny, 10:55)


Rogue Protocol by Martha Wells (Murderbot #3)

In book three, murderbot (MB) develops a theory about GrayCris, the corporation involved in the scandal from book one and the massacre MB investigates in book two. The theory leads him to an abandoned terraforming facility in orbit over the planet Milu. MB thinks that there could be evidence that GrayCris is illegally and craftily digging into alien ruins on planets like Milu. To get onto the facility MB befriends a humanoid bot named Miki. MB pretends to be a hired SecUnit on the facility to help secure Miki’s humans. The humans fall into a trap that is set to send the facility crashing to the planet to destroy evidence that GrayCris is hiding. MB finds himself saving another set of humans from imminent death. Evidence in hand, MB decides to visit Dr. Mensah, the person who freed him in book one. She’ll know what to do with the data. 


This book is for techies, sci-fi fans, and adventurers. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 3:46)


Taran Wanderer by Lloyd Alexander (The Chronicles of Prydain #4)

True to the title, in this book, Taran- Assistant Pig-Keeper goes wandering. His goal is to determine who his parents are. He wishes to determine if he has royal blood so that he might be worthy of asking Princess Eilonwy to marry him. He journeys to the Marshes of Morva to consult with the three witches. They send him looking for the Mirror of Llunet. Taran meets many people on his journey to find the mirror. He provides wise counsel to King Smite and almost becomes his heir, but presses on. Taran and his companions battle a sorcerer who is bent on ruling the dwarves. Taran finds an old sheepherder who claims to be his father. Taran is devastated by this news and yet, he honors the man by helping him prepare for winter. Taran learns the man had lied only after better understanding himself. Taran works as a sword-smith, a weaver, and a potter, but these trades do not hold his heart. Eventually, Taran finds the Mirror of Llunet and learns that it has been the journey and the lessons along the way that have made him who he is. They have proven his character. 


This book is for the wanderers, the seekers, the dreamers, and the craftsmen. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, audiobook read by James Langton, 6:19) 


The Legend of Sleepy Hollow by Washington Irving 

I try to pull in seasonal reads from time to time and now is the time for ghost stories like this one.  The legend is quite a bit shorter and less dramatic than the 1999 movie starring Johnny Depp. Ichabod Crane is the local schoolmaster in a 1790 small Dutch settlement called Tarry Town. He is leading a lovely life making the rounds, living with the families of the students he teaches, sharing music, food, news, and a bit of celebrity in the small town near Sleepy Hollow. That is until he falls in love with a girl, Katrina Van Tassel. Ichabod finds himself rival to a younger, manlier Brom Bones, who wants to fight for the girl. Following a harvest party and dashed hopes of proposing to Katrina, Ichabod runs into the Headless Horseman who chases the poor schoolmaster on his huge stallion. Finally, the horseman flings his flaming head at the fleeing Ichabod. Ichabod was never seen again. 


This legend is for the Halloween season and those who like clever humor.

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Anthony Heald, 1:17)


The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis

This is a fantasy story, written to describe the great separation between heaven and hell. The story is a dream and the dreamer becomes aware in a gray town (hell) and finds himself joining a bus queue. The omnibus takes the dreamer and other passengers up and out of the town to a bright sunny meadow. The folks of the gray town are ghostly and not as solid as the bright country. (This aspect of mater is a very interesting literary mechanism). The grass hurts their feet because it is more solid (real) than them and they aren’t substantive enough to even carry a leaf. Each ghost is met by a native of the solid land who tries to help them enter into joy or to fully abandon the gray town and seek love (God). The dreamer meets George MacDonald who teaches him what he is seeing, and how each of the ghosts are either saved or lost back to the gray town. In the end, the dreamer awakes and knows that the bridge of death is still ahead of him in his journey. This is a powerful story if you wish to better understand the dynamics between heaven and hell. The characters and dialogue make the theological debate accessible in a unique way. This story makes my heart yearn for heaven. 


This book is for dreamers, seekers, and ghosts. 

(Rated PG, Score 10/10, audiobook read by Robert Whitfield, 2:53)


Kill Shot by Vince Flynn (Mitch Rapp #2)

Mitch Rapp is on a roll. He’s killing terrorists and working his way down a list. But then the bad guys get the list. On a relatively easy hit in Paris, France, Rapp finds himself in a trap. He shoots his way out but gets shot in the process. So now you have the most dangerous assassin in the world, wounded and angry because someone set him up. The folks back home at Langley are torn. Half believe Rapp blew the op. Half believe something went wrong. The cranky old guy who trained Rapp, Stan Hurley, takes a big thug named Victor to figure out what happened, but Victor is a shoot first, lie his way out of it type. So Rapp is forced to shoot his way out of another situation in Paris. Eventually, with Irene Kennedy’s help, Mitch finds the men who sold him out and leaves a new trail of bad guy bodies. This book will keep you up past your bedtime. 


This book is for hunters, spies, and action junkies. 

(Rated R, Score 7/10, ebook, 400p., and audiobook read by George Guidall, 10:49)


Artemis by Andy Weir

Jazz Bashara is a smuggler- on the moon. She should have been so many other things, but she wasn’t properly motivated. When she is properly motivated by a job for a million slugs (moon currency) she turns into a saboteur. The sabotage job doesn’t go to plan and Jazz finds herself being hunted by a Brazilian mobster who kills her employer. Taking the sabotage a step further becomes the only option for Jazz to stay on the moon. She recruits a group of friends, enemies, and family to pull off the job. She needs to blow up the aluminum smelter on the moon to keep the Brazilian mob from taking over the small lunar community. In the process of blowing up the smelter, she accidentally pollutes the air in all the lunar environments with chloroform, knocking the whole city out. How will she refresh the air before she kills the whole settlement?


This book is for welders, street rats, and space junkies. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook performed by Rosario Dawson, 8:57)


Non-Fiction Books

Limitless by Jim Kwik

Jim Kwik suffered a brain injury as a child. He was known as the boy with a broken brain. Now he teaches people how to learn better for a living. His challenges, torments, and trauma fueled his mission to figure out how to learn. This is his story and his life’s work. Limitless is broken up into four parts: 1- Free your mind. 2- Limitless Mindset: The What. 3- Limitless Motivation: The Why. 4-Limitless Methods: The How. Part one is his story. Part two addresses belief systems and the seven lies of learning. Part three gets into purpose, energy, small simple steps, and flow. Part four breaks down practical learning methods: Focus, Study, Memory, Speed Reading, and Thinking. I am a lifelong learner, so I didn’t need to be sold on the back story or benefits of learning. I enjoyed the second half of the book more and found much more useful ideas in the How parts. I intend to get a hard copy of the book and do the many quick start exercises that Kwik puts in to help solidify the principles. One of the exercises I did do was to measure my reading speed. I read hard copy at somewhere around 200 words per minute. I’d like to be closer to 400 words per minute, so I’ll work on reading faster. Thanks, Mike, for the recommendation.


This book is for anyone wanting to learn how to learn.

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, audiobook read by the author, 12:58)


One Minute Manager 

This is a short management book suggesting three tactics for being a better manager: 1. Set One Minute Goals. 2. Give One Minute Praisings. 3. Use One Minute Redirects. These practical tools/secrets allow managers to engage with their employees in ways that emphasize clear expectations while valuing the employees as people. One minute goals should be clear and fit on one page. They should be agreed on between the employees and the manager so that both people clearly understand what success looks like and what should be the priority. Managers should catch their employees doing things right and praise those employees at that time. By praising right and good behavior early and often, managers reinforce the behaviors that they want. This saves managers from storing up praise or criticism for performance reviews where the feedback is less effective. When managers catch mistakes their employees make, these should be immediately addressed by a one minute redirect where the manager explains the mistake, tells the employee how that makes the manager feel, then reaffirms the value the employee has as a person (tough first, then kind). By setting clear expectations, praising good behavior, and redirecting bad behavior, managers can be results-oriented while investing in their employees’ success.

 

This book is for current and aspiring managers, leaders, and

(Rated PG, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Dan Woren, 1:27)



Preview/Currently Reading-

Here are the books I am currently working through:

Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins

Winning the War In Your Mind by Craig Groeschel

Ballistic by Mark Greaney (Gray Man #3)

Exit Strategy by Martha Wells (Murderbot #4)

The Grasshopper Trap by Patrick F. McManus

I track my books in a database called Goodreads. You might find it helpful in managing your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

In a lot of ways, October is a mix of celebrations and sorrows. Aubrey and I celebrated our tenth wedding anniversary this month. It’s amazing how much changes in ten years. We have two beautiful children now and a house full of messes and projects and potential. The weather changes in October and the green things die or go into hibernation. I am reminded of the cycle of life; of death; of resting. 


Last month I wrote about the passing of my friend Beau Cline. I was able to attend the services for him in California. It was a very hard trip, but I think it was deeply healing. There were many people in attendance at the graveside service; more than any other I have ever been to. Most people there were visibly upset and emotional. Everyone stayed and paid their respects even though it was windy and cold. The coffin was fabricated by Beau’s close friend and it suited him perfectly. All these things are a testament to how well Beau was loved, and how well he loved others. Words fail me in expressing how much he will be missed. 


Here is a tribute page set up for Beau with the American Brain Tumor Association. Stop by and donate a few $$. This is tax-deductible and might be an opportunity for charitable gift matching from your employer. Brain cancer has taken two of my closest people, so this cause is important to me.


Beau loved Halloween. He always had a costume. Most of them he made himself. What are you going to be for Halloween? 


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua

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Friday, October 1, 2021

FROM THE SPINE - SEPTEMBER 2021 BOOK REVIEWS

 September 2021

September is by us already. This year is flying by. I started the month by getting my gallbladder removed. I learned I am a terrible patient. I have no idea how to sit still and recover properly. Also, I have had a lot of family time lately, due to some covid quarantines. Millie and Jet both tested positive for the virus, which nuked all our social plans, but since Millie only had minimal symptoms, and Jet, Aubrey, and I had none at all, we’ve been just fine. We’ll get back in the school groove in October. 


Here are the books I finished in September 2021 and my short reviews of them:


Fiction Books

All Systems Red (Murderbot Diaries Book 1) by Martha Wells

Murderbot is a human/machine hybrid in charge of security for a survey team on a distant planet. It struggles with human interactions/emotions, preferring the humans in its’ charge to perceive him as a robot rather than a person. Murderbot has to step up its security game once its team is attacked by violent predators on the planet, then by an unknown, rogue team of surveyors with hacked security bots. The bad guys wipe out a different survey team and try to hijack Murderbot when it investigates the other team’s habitat. Murderbot’s team rescues him and together they work their way off of the planet to safety. Thanks, Lucas, for the recommendation. Now I need to find the prequel to learn how Murderbot got that nickname. 


This book is for sci-fi fans and socially awkward humans. 

(Rated PG-13, Score 7/10, audiobook read by Kevin R. Free, 3:17)


The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck

Man, this was a tough book for me. One of my core fears is a scarcity mentality, and this story about the Okies during the dustbowl/great depression woke up some of those fears for me. The main character Tom gets paroled from prison and heads home to reunite with his family. But, when he finds them, they are packing up to leave their Oklahoma farmland and head to California. They have been told that there is plenty of work and fruit in California, so everyone is leaving the dusty mid-west for the golden coast in search of work. The family makes the crazy trek across the nation in an old truck that they do some creative packing/refitting to carry everything they own. As the trip progresses the family splinters- some can’t handle the hard journey, some can’t take the mental stress, others make sacrifices to keep the family safe. Steinbeck doesn’t hand out answers in the end. He does, throughout the book though, paint a message of hope in this idea: only together can we survive. It’s when the “I” changes to “we” that we have community, and sacrifice, and hope for something bigger. Thanks, Aunt Sandra, for the recommendation. 


This book is for history walkers, workers, and leaders. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, audiobook read by Dylan Baker, 20:59)


Little Lord Fauntleroy by Frances Hodgson Burnett

Cedric Errol is a clever, kind, thoughtful boy of seven years who steals your heart in this funny little story. Cedric lives in New York with his widow mother. He spends his time with a bootblack and a grocery store owner talking politics and life and generally being a typical grade-school boy. His world gets flipped when his uncles die and Cedric becomes the heir to the Earl of Dorincourt (inheriting the title Lord Fauntleroy). The old Earl is a miserable, cranky, mean, old man before the little boy melts his heart. This is a story of how kindness, generosity, and selflessness can restore broken relationships and people. I can see many of the qualities of Cedric in my seven-year-old Jet, and I hope to encourage him to be brave, generous, and kind like Cedric. Thanks, Mom, for the recommendation.

 

This book is for anyone in need of a cheerful boost or a good laugh.

(Rated G, Score 9/10, ebook and audiobook read by Virginia Leishman, 6:17)


Neuromancer by William Gibson

If you ever wondered where the terms cyberspace or the matrix came from, this book is it. Gibson invented and envisioned some of the tech we have today way back in 1984. This is the story of Case, a cyber cowboy, or hacker back before they were called that. Case gets dragged along on a job to free/hack an AI entity called Wintermute and its counterpart Neuromancer. The two AI’s have been plotting this mission for decades. Case and Molly (the muscle) work on laying the foundations for the job that will go down in space in the lair of the ancient family that created the two AI’s. All along the way Case is haunted by the AI’s and helped by a construct of an old dead hacker friend.  The writing is fast and creative. You have to use your imagination fast to keep up. And even though it was written almost forty years ago, Gibson seems to have had a pretty good idea where all the tech is headed. Thanks, Phil, for the recommendation. 


This book is for sci-fi fans, tech cowboys, and hackers. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, ebook and audiobook read by Robertson Dean, 10:31)


Stardust by Neil Gaiman

This is a Faerie (fairy) story where a young man named Tristran Thorn goes on a quest to find a fallen star to earn the affection of the beauty, Victoria Forester. He leaves his village on the wall between the normal world and Faerie, and as he travels he discovers he has the power to find things in Faerie. Tristran leans on his luck, the friends he meets along the way, and eventually the star herself to accomplish his quest. The star is knocked out of her place in the sky and falls into Faerie. She finds herself hunted by several people- a pair of witches, a would-be king, and the boy from Wall. Gaiman masterfully weaves the stories and characters together and like all good fairytales, they live happily ever after, sort of. 


This book is for the finders, the fallen, and anyone in need of a Faerie tale. 

(Rated PG-13, Score 9/10, audiobook read by the author, 6:13) 


Non-Fiction Books

The Captain Class by Sam Walker

Walker’s goal for this book was to find the greatest sports teams in human history, then to compare them to see what, if anything, they had in common. He wanted to know if there’s a common theme or formula or cause. And if there was, how could we use that to be successful? First, he systematically studied and sorted thousands of teams down to Tier 1 teams- the best 16 teams of all-time ever. Now, what do they have in common? Great coaching? No. Great management? No. Great superstars? No again. Unmatched resources ($$$)? No. Turns out they have nothing in common except for one remarkable thing- they all had a very specific advantage- Tier 1 captains. These captains were not flashy or media darlings; they were the opposite. They avoided attention. They put in the hard work behind the scenes. They united their teams. They put the team first in ways that forged unity. Here are the seven traits of Walker’s elite captains: 1- Extreme doggedness and focus in competition. 2- Aggressive play that tests the limits of the rules. 3- A willingness to do the thankless jobs in the shadows. 4-A low-key, practical, and democratic communication style. 5-Motivates others with passionate nonverbal displays. 6- Strong convictions and courage to stand apart. 7- Ironclad emotional control. These traits are not super sexy or glamorous, so they are not being sought in today’s tv-contract driven world of sports. So, if you want to have a winning team, you need to find a person who exemplifies these traits, put them in the lead and get out of the way. And if you are struggling on your team because you don’t have a big enough budget, management is blocking you, or maybe you don’t feel talented enough, take heart. Success comes through hard work, communication, sticking with your crew, and being willing to stand out. A note on the style of this book: Walker is a sports writer, so he throws in lots of statistics and stories. I found his style to be extremely intelligent without being overly intellectual. I dig it. Thanks, Adrian, for this excellent recommendation. 


This book is for servant leaders and brave souls seeking to get better. 

(Rated R, Score 10/10, hardcopy, audiobook read by Keith Szarabajka, 9:24) 


The Bomber Mafia: A Dream, a Temptation, and the Longest Night of the Second World War by Malcolm Gladwell 

Unlike most books which start in a print version and then get recorded into audiobooks, this book started as an audio production and then was translated into print. It contains many short audio recordings from interviews and historical works like war films, training videos, and news broadcasts. This is the story of the evolution of the US Air Force, and the minds that dreamed of how air power could change the way we fight modern wars. This is the dark side of the story about how we defeated the Japanese in World War II. I found this story to be fascinating in its telling. Gladwell weaves together the philosophy, the tech, the politics, and the big picture war schemes in a way that helped me to understand the history in many new ways. This is the story of two very different Air Force leaders (Curtis LeMay and General Hayward Hansell) and how they approached the moral dilemma that is war. Gladwell asks hard questions about war and our approach to it, without preaching any answers. I found the story to be compelling and well-told. 


This book is for historians, students of war, and pilots. 

(Rated PG-13, Score 9/10, audiobook read by the author, 5:14) 


Preview/Currently Reading-

Here are the books I am currently working through:

Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins

Limitless

Winning the War In Your Mind

Artificial Condition


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. You might find it helpful in managing your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

I lost one of my biggest supporters last week. My very good friend, adopted big brother, and creative conspirator Beau Cline passed away after a struggle with a brain tumor. Beau was an artist and a creator. He was always building, painting, drawing, imagining, playing music. He taught me how to be more comfortable being me. He provided a lot of feedback when I started writing these reviews last year. He designed my logo and pitched several ideas for naming this thing. From The Spine is a Beau name. I’m so sad that he is gone and I am so proud to have been able to share so many adventures with him. We will go and honor him next week, and try to hold each other up as we grieve. Thanks, Beau, for always having my back. For pushing me to be better. For all the wisdom you poured into me in the most unorthodox ways. 


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua

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Wednesday, September 1, 2021

FROM THE SPINE - AUGUST 2021 BOOK REVIEWS

 August 2021

What a month August has been. We have had ups and downs; firsts and lasts. We got a new air conditioning unit installed during the hottest week of the summer thanks to some old HVAC guys who had mercy on us. I had more medical procedures than all the other months of my life put together. I learned a lot about myself this month. 


Here are the books I finished in August 2021 and my short reviews of them:


Fiction Books

Captains Courageous by Rudyard Kipling

I love this coming-of-age story. A spoiled young man (Harvey) falls overboard and is picked up by a fishing schooner off of the New England coast. Harvey is heir to $30 Million in railroads and mines. He has never done a lick of work in his life. Now he is the ship's boy on a cod fishing schooner called the We’re Here. He tries to convince the captain to take him to New York, but Captain Disco decides Harvey is concussed (or crazy). Instead of taking Harvey to New York, Disco offers Harvey a fair wage to learn the ropes and work with the crew until the fishing season is over. During the fishing season, the spoiled brat metamorphoses into a strong, capable, respectful, member of the crew. My favorite part of the story is the realization the millionaire father makes when Harvey shows him the boat and tells him his story. Disco gave the boy priceless lessons he never would have learned under the protection of his money. Thanks, Mom, for the recommendation. 


This book is for mothers, fathers, sons, and fishermen. 

(Rated G, Score 10/10, audiobook read by George Guidall, 5:57)


Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman

Gaiman uses masterful creative language and London lore to weave this tale. Richard Mayhew rescues a young lady named Door and as a result, falls into London below. London Below is the place where the outcasts land, the homeless, the abandoned, the different, the bizarre folks. Richard no longer exists in London Above, so he joins Door and the Marque de Carabas as they try to sort out the murder of Door’s family. Mr. Croup and Mr. Vandemar, assassins and villains, threaten them along their journey. Door hires a bodyguard- Hunter, but Hunter sells them out for a magical spear she needs to hunt the Beast of London - a ferocious great boar. In the end, the Lady Door manages to free the group of their enemies by opening a portal to as far away as she can send them. Thanks, Kate, for the recommendation. 


This book is for the openers, the outcasts, and the forgotten. 

(Rated R, Score 9/10, audiobook read by the author, 13:48)


Wool Omnibus by Hugh Howey 

This is a different sort of post-apocalyptic story, set outside of Atlanta a couple of hundred years after the earth has been turned into a lifeless waste. Humanity is living underground in a silo. The psychology of this story is fascinating. The narrative follows a tough mechanic woman (Juliette) on her journey from the down deep of the silo, to the up top, and on other adventures as the story plays out. Juliette is appointed sheriff of the silo, and she inherits several open cases that lead her to discover that not everything in the silo is as it appears. What will she learn as she challenges the power balance in the silo? Thanks, Stephen, for the recommendation. 


This book is for survivors, sheepdogs, and rebels. 

(Rated R, Score 8/10, ebook and audiobook read by Minnie Goode, 17:53)


The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett

This is a hopeful book about healing, magic, nature, friendship, and laughter. Mary, a spoiled ten-year-old girl gets shipped off to live with her uncle in England when her family is killed in a cholera outbreak in India. There, at Craven Manor, she meets her equally spoiled and horrid cousin, Colin, who is sickly and wild. The pair are joined by a local boy (Dicken) who has the power to heal and grow things. They find a secret garden, and they work to make it bloom and grow beautiful. In the process they find healing. The staff of the manor can’t believe the healing and change in temperament of the pair. Finally, the boy’s father, who has been sick and lost in grief since the boy’s mother died in childbirth, returns home to be reunited with his son and healed from the grief. Thanks, Mom, for the recommendation. 


This book is for healing, and magic, and spring, and animal charmers. 

(Rated G, Score 9/10, ebook, audiobook read by Carrie Hope Fletcher, 7:38)


This Is How You Lose The Time War by Amal El-Mohtar, Max Gladstone

I got this book recommendation from the 5 Bullet Friday email that Tim Ferriss puts out each week. He basically said “go read it and the less you know going in the better”, so I went and got it and dove in. I suggest you do the same, but for those of you who need to know some stuff before committing, here’s a basic overview. It is Red vs Blue; tech vs bio; the network vs the biome; in a time war. The story bounces all over time and is told in snapshots and letters between the soldiers on opposing sides so the letters have to be encoded. It’s creative, clever, and different. It evolves and grows as you get into the characters and the plot. Just go read it and don’t quit till you get at least 30 pages in. I swear it settles in. 


This book is for sci-fi fans, and time-soldiers, and adventurers, and letter readers.

(Rated R, Score 9/10, ebook, audiobook read by Cynthia Farrell, 4:15)


The Boy In The Striped Pajamas by John Boyne

This is an incredibly brave book written by Boyne. This is a story written from the view of a nine-year-old boy named Bruno. Bruno is a young German boy who gets moved from his comfortable home in Berlin to a smaller, much lonelier home when his father gets a new job from the Fury. Bruno hates the new home away from his friends, but he manages to make a new friend on the other side of the fence. His new friend is always hungry and thin and grey and sad. The boys grow their friendship by talking through the fence, and they take comfort from each other in their struggles. Of course, this is a book about the holocaust, but the way it is treated by the author with the characters and emotions and situations and language is so good. Thanks, Seth, for the recommendation. 


This book is for readers of all ages, for parents, for kids, and for truth-seekers.

(Rated PG, Score 10/10, audiobook read by Michael Maloney, 4:58)



Non-Fiction Books

Stillness Is The Key by Ryan Holiday

There are so many good principles in this book covering the stillness of the body, soul, and mind. Here are some of the areas I am working on trying to incorporate and practice at some level: Journaling. Letting go of the urgent to focus on the important. Studying wonder and beauty. Letting go of results to focus on processes. Going for walks. Giving more of my stuff away.  Sleeping like a rock. Stopping self-medicating in unhealthy ways and running away from hard things. Being what matters instead of talking about it. 

Holiday uses stories, examples, proverbs, and wisdom to help illustrate these ways to practice stillness. In this crazy world, we could all use more stillness and peace. 


This book is for the anxious, the busy, and the overstimulated. 

(Rated PG-13, Score 8/10, audiobook read by the author, 6:56)


Enneagram Type 5 by Beth McCord

Turns out I’m an enneagram Type 5. That means a lot to those people who understand enneagram things, like my wife. But I need a map, so Aubrey got me a book to work through the details. This book is a 21-day exercise/journaling type book, which runs through the basics of the enneagram, the core motivations, fears, desires, weaknesses, and longings of Type 5s. Then it covers alignment, wings, triads, and various paths. Like all personality bucketing systems, the enneagram is a soft science, but its power comes from its ability to provide language around the core emotions of each type. I learned a lot about myself by engaging and journaling through all 21 days. Historically, I haven’t been able to stick with journaling for more than five minutes so this was a big win in the discipline experiment category. 

Figure out your enneagram type here

Each type has a similar book here


This book is for enneagram Type 5s or their significant others. 

(Rated G, Score 7/10, hardback, 141p.)


Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box by The Arbinger Institute

This book showed up on the recommended reading list put together by senior leaders at work. A few of the guys in my group are reading through it and are discussing the ideas as they apply to our area. I’ll probably have to read through it a few more times for the concepts to sink in enough to help teach others. The book is set up like a leadership fable. The characters are fictional but are based on real-life examples. In the story, the main character learns all about how he is “in the box” (self-deceived into seeing people as objects or threats rather than as people). His new boss is the one teaching the lessons about the box. The company culture is built on teaching people about the box, how to get out of it, and how to thrive by seeing each other as people and working together toward real results. The book is broken up into three parts: I- Self-Deception and the Box, II- How We Get in the Box, and III- How We Get Out of the Box. The ideas are fairly complex, but they fit in with the Golden Rule- treat people how you want to be treated. What this book does, is help you see that to treat people well, you have to slow down and see them as people with wants and needs and goals and emotions. Only then can you connect with them. 


This book is for leaders, spouses, and brave souls seeking to get better. 

(Rated PG, Score 8/10, hardcopy, audiobook read by Steve Carlson, 6:01) 


Preview/Currently Reading-

Here are the books I am currently working through:

The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck

Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins

The Captain Class by Sam Walker


I track my books in a database called Goodreads. You might find it helpful in managing your reading lists. 


Final Thoughts- 

My son and his cousin were having a reading contest with their Grandma the other evening. As they were reading, I heard Jet talking about how he was on “level 7” (chapter 7), so now all chapters will be referred to as levels. It’s hard to express how much this resonates with me. I love it.  


Today I am leveling up by getting my faulty gallbladder removed. Say a prayer or send me some positive energy if you remember. 


Thanks for adventuring with me. 


Joshua